Pregnancy Update #1: My Valentine’s Day Surprise 💕

💕 The Valentine’s Day Surprise That Changed Everything

I still can’t believe I’m saying this… I found out I was pregnant on Valentine’s Day. 💖

It was unexpected. It was emotional. It was beautiful.
And now, I’m sharing the beginning of this new chapter with you.

🎥 Watch the full video here:
👉 Pregnancy Update #1 on YouTube

🩺 High-Risk, High Hopes

Because I have narcolepsy — and because I’m over 40 — this pregnancy is considered high-risk from the start.

That said, I’ve always been open about my health journey. So it only feels right to be just as honest as I step into this completely new (and slightly terrifying) adventure.

🥂 From Prosecco to Pregnancy Test

It all started the night before Valentine’s Day. I was sipping a glass of Prosecco when I suddenly felt sick — like, “this drink might be bad” level of nausea.

Alan, my partner, looked at me and asked,

“Are you sure you’re not expecting?”

I brushed it off because I had taken a test that Sunday (I was tracking regularly). But something nudged me to test again the next morning.

✨ A Positive Test… and a Bigger Conversation

On February 14, I took the test. And then I waited. And while waiting, I prayed.

I remember thinking maybe God wasn’t saying I waited too long — maybe He was just saying that life would still be good, no matter what.

But then… the result appeared. Positive. Everything changed in that moment.

🧬 Decisions, Deadlines, and Talking to a Geneticist

Because of Florida’s medical policies, I knew I had very little time to make important decisions if I needed to. So I immediately asked for consults with a geneticist and a medication specialist.

USF Health had me on a call in just two days. I’ll never forget what the geneticist asked me:

“Jane, what is really your concern?”

My honest answer?

“If the baby’s not born with a skull…”

I know. Dramatic. But it was coming from a place of fear — not knowing what was ahead, how fast things were moving, and what was medically possible.

🧪 The First Tests

So far, I’ve completed two sets of genetic testing:

  • Carrier screening

  • Chromosomal abnormalities

Both came back negative. Which was such a relief.

At the time of recording the video, I was around 15 weeks.
Right now, I’m just taking it one day (and one appointment) at a time.

💭 Looking Back (and Ahead)

This journey started with one quiet moment, one unexpected test, and a whole lot of feelings.

I’ll be sharing more in future posts and videos — everything from narcolepsy + pregnancy management, to symptoms, cravings, and how I’m really doing week by week.

But for now, this is how it all began.

💌 Let’s Stay Connected

Thanks for being here. Your support means so much — especially in this new season of life.

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💤 Stay naptastic,

Jane

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